Why do we Fear of Rejection?

Why do we Fear of Rejection? – Reasons and Remedies
By Ahmad Amirali

Last week, I was out to travel to the northern areas of Pakistan for official reasons. Gilgit Baltistan and Chitral regions are known for its cultural and historical significance. I met many people; most of them were teachers. On my third day of the session, one candidate asked me a question that triggers a series of questions in my mind. He asked ‘Sir, If I do not fulfil this requirement in my application form, would I be rejected?’ I said, ‘Yes’. He replied, ‘Oh! Then I might not apply for that program, because I don’t want to be rejected’.  Later on, that day, I thought about that guy and questioned myself, why do we fear of rejection? Rejection, either in relationships or in a career, is equally brutal for almost every person. Students fear of failure in exams, teachers fear the failure of their lesson plans, and parents fear of their children’s future decisions. We all scared of being rejected but what makes us fear of such rejections? Read More …

The Fear of Phobias in Teens

The Fear of Phobias in Teens
By Ahmad Amirali

Once I was conducting a classroom activity to explain the concept of trust to my students. The activity had an instance where one student needs to stand on a chair and fall back without seeing backwards, and four students need to catch that student. There were four groups when the third group came in front of the class, the student who supposes to stand on a chair said she would not be going to do that as she ‘fear of height’.  It is likely that students’ teenagers developed a different type of fears when they entered teenage, for instance; fear of needles, fear of fire or fear of a thunderstorm. What makes them afraid of any object or situation? To understand this phenomenon among teens, we will try to explore two terms; Fear and Phobia. Read More …