Last week, a parent approached me after my class and shared one concern about her teen, which is of every parenting concern nowadays, that she is now becoming more and more demanding materialistically. She believes that her daughter, who is one of my students as well, always complains about the way they live in a ‘joint-family’, means she doesn’t have any privacy apart of her bedroom which is also shared with her younger siblings. However, the parent also appreciates that her daughter understands all these issues very well. Still, sometimes she argues too much with other family members and her siblings over small matters. The parent seems so desperate that she almost takes 30 minutes to share every bit of her mind with me. Once she finished, her daughter arrived, and she left without asking for a solution to her concerns. Maybe she only wants to share her worries to lighten up her emotions. However, while listening to her, several questions burst into my mind. First, if her daughter is that much reasonable, then what makes her react in such a rebellious manner at home? As per my observation, she is one of the obedient students of my class, and she hardly shows any sign of stress during the lessons. Is she really a demanding and attention seeker child at home or, maybe, her parent has misinterpreted her? Or perhaps all the assumptions are wrong, and the only issue is the communication gap between the daughter and the parent. Let’s find out. Continue reading “Coping with Teens: The Demanding Phase of Teenagers”
One of the parents, after school hours, came to me and shared that her child’s behaviour at home has changed since last year. Her satisfaction with everything, from dress codes to cuisine, changes rapidly. One moment she seems happy, but her mood shifts to anger in seconds. Overall, her behaviour is getting weird and strange day by day. Is it because of her social group (friend-circle), or is it something else?
First of all, parents, children from the age of 10 start developing their thinking skills and behaviour. It seems they are grown-ups. However, it’s not always the case. While some will start looking and acting more mature, others will remain more child-like physically and emotionally. Remember that 10 to 14 years is the period of change for them. It is a transition that can offer challenges and delights as children start to embrace the approach of adolescence. Mood swings are one of the ‘developmental’ aspects of this change or transition. Continue reading “Why does Child’s Mood Start Swing after 10 years? Causes and Preventive Measures”
In my last parent-teacher meeting, I received a complaint from one of the parents, and I must say she had a reason. First, she appreciates me about myreadables and shares some thoughtful reviews with me. However, she humbly asked me:
‘Urdu: آپ ہم والدین کیلۓ کیوں کوئ ریسورس نہیں ڈالتے؟’ ‘English: Why don’t you upload some resources for us, parents, as well?’. So, Parents here is the first instalment of the top 8 websites that help you to engage your child in different activities to practice their reading and math skills. The resources on these websites are FREE; however, in some sites, you need to make an account. That’s it. I hope you will find these websites helpful in making your child’s reading skills fresh in the upcoming summer break. Continue reading “8 Educational Websites for Parents”
Let me tell you about some myths which I always heard in my childhood ‘your success is based on how much your teacher is investing in you’, ‘if you want success in your exams, follow your teacher’. Why are these assumptions myths? Let’s assume if these are myths, what factors should be involved in students’ academic success? Is it students’ socioeconomic profile or the profile of the school in which student is learning? The most crucial factor that leads to student success is how families encourage learning at home and involve themselves in their child’s education. Continue reading “Parental involvement, The Key that Leads to Students’ Success?”